My name is Buzz and I'm an internet addict.
Now you could laugh
at the notion as being a serious problem, but ask someone with a sex
addiction what their life is like and you'll realize that addiction to
anything is a serious issue.
As we move through a more and more
connected world, the ability to be online all the time is not only
proving itself to be convenient, it's proving to be addictive.
reSTART
, an Internet Addiction and Recovery center, offers up a checklist to see if you're an addict:
• Increasing amounts of time spent on computer and internet activities
• Failed attempts to control behavior
• Heightened sense of euphoria while involved in computer and internet activities
• Craving more time on the computer and internet
• Neglecting friends and family
• Feeling restless when not engaged in the activity
• Being dishonest with others
• Computer use interfering with job/school performance
• Feeling guilty, ashamed, anxious, or depressed as a result of behavior
• Changes in sleep patterns
• Physical changes such as weight gain or loss, backaches, headaches, carpal tunnel syndrome
• Withdrawing from other pleasurable activities
Really that's a checklist you could put up against any destructive behaviour be it smoking, gambling, or .. yknow ..
sex
.
To
show you how deep the addiction can be,
reSTART
treats texting and
video game addictions. Texting! The issues surrounding compulsive use
of social media made it's way into
Newsweek
last month with an article
headlined:
Internet addiction sounds like a punch line. But it ruined my brother's life
.
I
say I'm an addict, because I find myself constantly needing to plug
in. I need to send a tweet, check my email, google a question or make
a note for a blog post. I can't go through an entire meal with my
family without briefly excusing myself from the table.
I sit at
the computer first thing when I get up in the morning. I am sitting
with a laptop or iPhone in my hand immediately before I go to bed.
Sometimes my brain won't stop that I'll jump from bed to run back and
make a note or check a file.
A visit to the park with my son
will have me taking photos and uploading to Flickr and tweeting about
the experience instead of relishing the sunshine, fresh air and
vitality of my toddler's youth.
Fast Company
reports on an Intel survey
that finds 3/4 of us think it's fine to check our gadgets while
on the toilet. Is that really necessary? Is there no sacred time or
space anymore? (asks the man who uses the bathroom as an excuse to
check his iPhone during family time)
There's
no doubt that many of you reading this article will find yourself
having a problem. Whether that is a "small p" problem or a "capital P"
Problem will determine whether you need something like
reSTART
or you
just need to re-evaluate how you use technology.
For more it's a
re-evaluation. I'm going to let my wife bring the phone when we go out
on weekends. She has a "dumb phone" that won't draw me into the web,
but will still keep us connected if there's an emergency. I'm going to
make an effort to go analog outside of regular work hours. Reading
physical books will feed the brain just as well as a newsfeed and it's
a more focussed and imerssing experience. I'm going to go for a run
first thing in the morning. I can still bring a long my iPod shuffle
and feed my head with all sorts of technological podcasty goodness
while I'm out experiencing the world and getting fit.
I'm Buzz Bishop and I'm addicted to the internet, but I'm going to do something about it. What about you?
catch the buzz ... pass it on.